The Circumstance’s you’re currently in don’t define who you are.

The circumstances that you’re currently in are the outcome of the decisions that you made.
You can choose to change the way you live at any moment, they’re not the be all or the end of your life.
if you’re currently in a shitty situation, they’re just that, a shitty moment of your life, they don’t define who you are, they don’t say your life is shitty, is just a passing moment.
A dear friend was telling me how shitty his life was, how much he hated his job, his bosses, everything was shitty about it, he was so overwhelmed that he was having a meltdown.
I reminded him he chose to work where he is working, and I kept trying to explain to him that he can change the way he thinks about his job and even change to work somewhere else, but there was just a shutting me down.
which is why I’m here.
Whenever you feel like your life sucks, try to think of it a just a low moment in your journey, not your entire life, although it seems like it could be that it.
when you are going through something bad, sometimes you feel so overwhelmed, you start counting everything that’s going wrong and start digging yourself in a puddle of self loathing and misery.
I’m not sure how to explain it but, this is all that comes out: YOU DON’T HAVE TO LIVE LIKE THAT.
negativity spreads all over you like a virus quickly, and it takes absolutely nothing to become a negative person. all you have to do is become lazy and wine about your problems.
the life your living is yours, and no one else’s and whatever situation you’re in is because you’ve chosen to live that way, you’ve decided to go through what you’re going through, it’s a reflection of your self-worth and the value you think you deserve and nothing will change until you realize your potential and what you deserve.
all you have to do is be active in your happiness, that’s all that matters, if you feel like something in your life is doing a disservice, all you have to do it make it stop, you have the power to do that.
you have the power to stop and begin everything you want in your life.
your circumstances don’t define you.
love yourself, protect yourself, give yourself the happiness you deserve.
that’s all I’m going to say.



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I’m an actress in pursuit of happiness and finding my truth. Through my writing I am able to release my thinking without being judged or having the need to impress people in this crazy world we’re living in. I hope that through my experience I inspire you to find your truth and version of happiness.

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