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Changing your Habitual Way of Thinking can Change the Way you View your Circumstances.

People love to be the victim, they always have something to complain about.
They like to believe that their problems can’t be solved and that their life will be in their current state forever, until some magic knight comes to the rescue.
I used to be like that. Now it just seems completely foreign and unattractive!
I am very proud to say I’ve become a master of my circumstances, yay hooray!
Ahem…anyway, back to topic:
Get over yourself, honey.
We all have issues, you just don’t see everyone parading them around like it’s something that’s in “style.”
I was unemployed not long ago, like a lot of people, but unlike, also, a lot of people, I kept searching for a gig, everyday! Literally from 9 to 5, looking for one! Until I no longer had to!
I have a co-worker, who is constantly complaining.
When I say constantly complaining….I mean that from the moment I clock in, to the moment I clock out, there is always something to complain about when I ask her how she’s doing; She’s a waitress and I think she’s the sweetest human being.
But Today…I had to ask her, “have you noticed, that every time you see me, and I ask you how you’re doing, you’re always complaining to me about something that’s going on here?”
She stared and smiled, having nothing to say to that (I love it when I catch somebody off guard.)
Later, she was explaining to me that she’s like that because of her nationality… She’s Russian.
I wonder if there is a Russian reader… would you agree? If you’re out there? I’d certainly like to know!
I told her she didn’t have to continue doing this job if she didn’t want to, nobody was forcing her, she chose to get up and come into work.
She told me she enjoyed getting paid and spoiling herself.
No the job is wonderful isn’t it? See how easy it is to change your mind about something.
There is always going to be something to complain about, not every day is going to be perfect.
That’s where the perfect balance comes it 🙂
But to complain for the tiniest things like from a guest request to an order change the entire time of your shift seemed a little wild!
If you’re looking for someone to talk about your problems, why not just go to a therapist? Their job is to hear you out!
Anyway,
You need to let go of the thoughts and habits that don’t make you strong, because those are the reasons why you’re stuck where you are and can’t seem to find an out from your current circumstance, the minute you stop those habits, the minute your life can change.
xoxo,
S.

 

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