I was inspired to write this letter to you in hopes that it touches you in some way:
You’re an incredibly beautiful soul, and if someone hasn’t told you that, I hope you woke up today feeling that for yourself, but if not? let it come from me, because I genuine believe that you truly are, from the moment you were born, you were meant to be who you are right now, and be on this earth for a reason, and I feel lucky to share this letter with you, whoever you are.
I want you to know that you don’t have to stay stuck where you are right now, that the things that you feel like you can’t do, or are hard to do, are just things your brain is coming up with to stop you from being your greatest self; not because you actually can’t physically do it or is unattainable.
we all want to feel safe, no matter the situation, we all want to be sure nothing will harm us; remember that peer pressure feeling you had back in high school and made a decision based on the fear of not fitting in with your friends? well, the moment we make the decision to feel uncomfortable, immediately, our brain will want to protect itself, and start putting in thoughts like, “that’s not possible”, “I can’t do that”, “it’s too much.” Until we, eventually, let it get to us and we stop, until we start feeling comfortable and safe again. this is where, “you are your own worst enemy” comes in.
There is a saying that goes like this, “where there’s a will, there’s a way.”
Find the will to do whatever it is you want to do, and make every decision in 2018 to do just that, commit to yourself and your dreams, and make sure that every decision you want to make, for 365 days of the year, are decisions that will benefit you in every area of your life.
Develop your will and make it stronger than those limiting thoughts in your brain, which are not even real, that’s just in your thinking.
don’t listen to your brain when you want to do something and are afraid to, don’t listen to that “I can’t” part of your brain, don’t listen to that voice that will limit you and keep you safe. Don’t listen to the people around you that find you strange because you’re not doing something that’s “cool” in their eyes
Let go of the idea that if a lot of people aren’t doing it, it isn’t worth it; it’s worth it if you feel like you should do it, whatever that is, and don’t apologize for that, ever.
Be willing to face your fears and realize that they are just thoughts that are not even real.
Don’t do a disservice to yourself in the process of feeling safe and extraordinary on the eyes of someone else’s point of view.
Everyone is different, their perspectives are different from yours, and the worst thing you can do to yourself is change who you are to fit into someone else’s point of view. Not everyone is meant to be in your life, some people are just lessons that pass through to teach you something about yourself, which is a gift in this journey we call life.
We were all born for a reason, wether you believe it or not, and when you find that reason, work your ass off to develop it, because the universe will support you every step of the way! the law of attraction works, but only if you take action towards it, will it work, I promise you.
You’re making decisions based on your only point of view alone, not someone else’s, you’re the only one holding the pen to your movie, not your mom, or your dad, or your friends, nobody but you and you alone have to realize that you, are your only limit, your beliefs are just in your brain, and your thought patterns; which is something you will realize you can change when you make decisions that can change you.
Be willing to ask yourself questions like, “if I were allowed to be whoever and do whatever it is I want to do, with no worries about money, or people’s judgement, what would I do?” And when you answer that question, go out and do just that, even if you lose friends, or lovers, even if you feel like you are losing your place along the way, the universe will bless you with whoever is meant to be in your life, and you will find your right kind of people when you go out and find yourself and your place in the world.
It’s always hard before it gets better.
Be brave, and strong, and different, for yourself, because you’re not what you’re going through, yesterday is in the past and tomorrow is a new possibility, you don’t have to stay where you are right now and tomorrow can be different than what it was today, but you have make the decision to go out and kill it with whatever it is that you want to do, because no one else will do it for you.
I care for you.
“If there’s no enemy within, the enemy outside can do us no harm.”